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valentine’s day outside the restaurant box

February 3, 2017 foodwithaview Leave a Comment

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Valentine’s Day.  The worst day of the year to go out to dinner.  Alright, that came out a little grumpy, but it is true.  If you want to say “I love you” to the foodie in your life, but are also looking for alternatives to the traditional fancy restaurant option, this post is for you.

Some restaurants will try to pack in extra seatings, exercising crowd control by offering a menu with more limited options.  They may also attempt to entice customers with a prix fixe menu.  This rarely equals a bargain and sometimes is more expensive than their normal offerings. For these reasons, Gary and I usually avoid dining out on February 14th like the plague.

blueberries in a heart by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com
photo by jakub at foodiesfeed
 Guess I’ll find out if Gary is actually reading.

Send your valentine on a foodie adventure.  Think scavenger hunt combined with food tour. Scout out local food haunts — speciality food stores, home and kitchen shops, quick dining options — and plan a self-guided “tour” for you and your valentine. Make it a little more mysterious with a series of clues your loved one has to solve to find the next stop on the tour.  Great local stops include Able Baker and Palmer’s Sweetery & Cafe in Maplewood, Kitchen a la Mode in South Orange, Sweet Nothings or the Summit Cheese Shop in Summit, Olive That and More in Montclair, or Patricia & Paul in Westfield.

red candies and scoop by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com
“sweet candies store” by jakub at foodiesfeed 

Cook dinner with your valentine at home.  We love cooking together in our beautiful kitchen.  It’s relaxing, we get to listen to music and talk, and of course, enjoy our ever-growing wine collection.  The opportunity for an impromptu slow dance just doesn’t present itself often at a restaurant.  Plan the menu, grocery shop, cook, and do the dishes together while you reconnect.  If you have children, arrange for an offsite babysitter — perhaps consider a “swap” of evenings with local friends.

raw salmon fillets with flaky salt by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com
“raw salmon fillets” by jakub at foodiesfeed

Celebrate all your valentines with a family picnic.  No babysitter?  Order take out and have a Valentine’s Day picnic, complete with blankets, pillows, and optional roaring fire for all the valentines in your life.  If your kids are anything like mine, they’ll eat it up.  And what better way to show them what love looks like?

colorful sushi in a black box by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com
“colorful sushi in a black box” by jakub at foodiesfeed

Take a cooking class with your valentine.  We always have more fun when we learn something new together.  This option is perfect if you can’t [or don’t want to] celebrate on February 14th — just arrange the class on another day.  We like the classes at the Institute of Culinary Education in Manhattan, or you can try Classic Thyme in Westfield.  King’s Supermarkets also offers cooking classes at their cooking studio in Short Hills.

tagliatelle on a dark wooden board by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com
“tagliatelle” by jakub at foodiesfeed

Surprise your valentine with a short trip to a foodie destination.  This is a little less of a departure from the fancy restaurant option, but it’s pretty special and usually very appreciated.  Even better if you can make it a surprise.  There are two great local options that are close enough to make just one night away practical that have fantastic restaurants right in the hotel:  The Bernards Inn in Bernardsville, NJ, and the Grand Cascades Lodge in Hamburg, NJ.  The Bernards Inn Restaurant and Restaurant Latour are some of the best-loved restaurants in the state.

Choose a restaurant special to just you and your valentine.  Maybe it’s the your first date coffee shop, or the bar where you first locked eyes. Or just your absolute favorite burger joint.  Show your valentine you remembered and pick something a little less expected, but far more memorable.

cappucino with a heart by foodiesfeed | valentines day alternatives | foodwithaview.com

“mobile coffee” by jakub at foodiesfeed

Pair wine and chocolate with your valentine.  Another home-based option — arrange a dessert tasting of wine and chocolates.   If your valentine is like mine, add some port into the mix. Some great pairings to try:  a shiraz with creamy milk chocolate, dark chocolate with a late harvest zinfandel, caramel chocolate with tawny port, white chocolate and a ruby port, or a cream sherry with salted chocolate.

chocolate bark tied with a red ribbon | photo by yoori koo via unsplash | valentines day alternatives on foodwithaview.com
photo by yoori koo via unsplash

How do you show a little love to your foodie valentine?  Give us all more ideas to try in the comments section below.  Follow foodwithaview.com on Facebook or my culinary adventures board on Pinterest to see how the big day turns out!

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